吉尔莫女孩：生命中的一年

不知道已经看了多少遍的经典剧。 Gilmore Girls is my favourite TV series throughout the past decades. I've watched Friends repeatedly, it's easy to watch, funny to laugh, it's like a cup of hot chocolate in the cold winter making you feel safe and warm. Gilmore Girls is even better than that. The conversation is witty, fast, loquacious, satirical, full of pop culture and literature references. The cast is only the most good-looking, ingenious group of actors and actresses there ever is. And most importantly, it's a mother-daughter show happening in a small, appealing town called Stars Hollow in Connecticuit, the show revolves life stories of Lorelai Gilmore and Rory Gilmore (Lorelai Gilmore, the mother named her daughter after herself): their love lives, laughter, sorrows, significant life events, obsession with coffee, good music, books, pop cultures, witty verbal banters, and junk food.

To me, Gilmore Girls is a classic. Amy Sherman-Palladino is my favourite screenwriter other than Aaron Sorkin (the screenwriter for The Social Network, The West Wing and The Newsroom). She has won Primetime Emmy Awards for another creation of hers- The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. She is one of the trailblazers in this industry- an extremely talented producer and screenwriter. She is the sort of role model for a lot of women who seek to pursue a similar career.

The Marvellous Mrs Maisel- also created by Amy Sherman-Palladino

Spoiler alert! 剧透预警！！

The story of Rory Gilmore is charming, inspiring, yet screams elitism. The mother and daughter are not materialistic at all, however, they are from a wealthy, white, middle-class American family. On one point, the whole story is based on Rory's academic studies in Chilton and Yale, life in Stars Hollow, Friday-night dinner in Hartford with her grandparents (who sponsored her private school tuition and college tuition- Christopher, Rory's father sponsored her for Yale as well, she also has a trust fund set up for her by her grandparents), and upcoming career challenges. Rory was initially studying at Stars Hollow High, where she met her first love- Dean Forrester. She later transferred to a private school- Chilton and studied diligently for her life goal- Harvard University. Somehow she ended up going to Yale. She is an intimidatingly smart, driven girl who knows what she wants in life.

One of my favourite features of the show is definitely Rory's love life (I love her academic mind tremendously, I'm also nerdy and enjoy readings wholeheartedly). Dean, Jess, and Logan have shaped her perspectives on relationship. Dean is Rory's first love, he is the perfect boyfriend she could ever ask for. In Rory's own words, quote below:

Rory and Dean ran into each other after all these years again in Dosey's market

It was a mutual love-at-first-sight. They fell in love quickly and became the "it" couple of the town. It was a shame that they went different directions, Rory has set Harvard as her goal since she was three, Dean was just a boy moved from Chicago with his family to Stars Hollow, he doesn't have a specific plan for life after high school. They were each other's sweetheart, but life was too cruel to make Dean realize that Rory belongs to a bigger world, he had to let her go eventually.

Jess is so different from Dean. He is the bad guy that most teenage girls would fall for- good-looking, well-read, despises everything, etc. Rory and Jess have so much in common. He is smart enough to read all the books he can find, they can have conversations about books, music, cult movies, being defiant and reckless from time to time. Rory knows that she can relax and explore different sides of herself when she is with Jess. But Jess was emotionally unavailable for her in the end. He ran away from everything, he was being elusive about senior prom (Rory was really looking forward to attending prom with Jess), Rory had a bright future ahead of her, she moved on after the graduation trip to Europe with Lorelai.

Logan and Rory did not start on the right foot- it was like Elizabeth and Mr Darcy in Pride and Prejudice for a short period of time. But it turns out that they are actually right for each other on every aspect. They went through ups and downs hand in hand.If it weren't for the job on Obama's presidential campaign, they really would end up together.

This is just one great feature of the show, there is so much to watch, and it's definitely a classic among all those TV series in history.I highly recommend this show to anyone who loves classic TV series.

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这四集跟前七季的感觉很不一样。不仅是小演员们都长大了，少了当初的纯真，多了些社会同化的结果，而且也是也可能他们十年间没有像以前拍戏那样一直在一起，之间的默契还没来得及建立很多，第四集的时候感觉好了很多，又找到了之前的那种之间很默契很亲近的感觉，特别是rory and lorelai之间。从剧情设置上也是，前七季中虽然也有些不顺，有矛盾冲突，有伤心，但感觉都是在一种温情的氛围下，而且大都是由于双方之间的误解所造成的，内核还是互相关心。而这四集中，感觉主角们更接地气了，前期虽然也都只是小镇生活，但是好像自带阳光，什么事情最终都能处理的很好；这季中，就感觉跟我们很像。rory也会失业，很慌的各种找工作，有个工作要自己，就像抓住救命稻草一样，结果最后还是被嘲笑然后被拒，感觉社会中刚毕业的学生找工作大多都是这样的吧；lorelai是开旅馆的，虽然很小，但是已经想要扩大规模也具有这种能力，Emily有很多钱，christopher也有很多钱，rory自己是耶鲁第一名毕业的，可是这些与logon的家庭相比还是不够，还是不算是门当户对，他俩在一起那么好，十几年过去了，依然觉得跟对方在一起充满有意思的事情，不厌烦，也能互相聊自己的想法，也聊得来，也互相感情很深，互相关心，互相成为对方的习惯；可是。。这又怎样，在现实的生活中可能这些依然不够吧，第七季末logon求婚，rory没有答应，真不知道如果答应了会怎样，后期会不会还是会这样，logon依然要娶某个富商或者权贵的女儿。还好，虽然大环境某些方面很残酷，生活中也会时不时的碰到各种事情，让我们痛苦地想大喊大叫，绝望地只想随手抓住一个救命稻草而不至于被溺死，突然的某一个瞬间觉得周围没人能够理解，也没人支持，一个人好无助；但是，家人可能会冲我们吼，会在某时转身离去，但是最终他们还是会在那里，会陪着我们，会以他们的方式支持我们，让我们能够感受到温暖，并勇敢地走下去。看到luke觉得很亲切，虽然他脾气很暴躁，各种不分场合的发脾气，大吼大叫，而很多时候其实并没有什么事情，不过他总是很细心，关心着身边的人，默默的做着自己觉得自己应该做的事情。

不能更relate to Logan的故事线了。

Rory毕业时Logan求婚，R没有答应，但是后来却做了Logan的情人，两人纠葛了小10年。乍一看不make sense，实际上很make sense。

第七季Logan生意上刚受挫，整个人陷入低谷，加之那两年他cheated on Rory，后来受重伤R还不离不弃照顾他，这一切加起来让他暂时的抛下家庭，偏向R。这个举动是冲动的，他当然爱R，但是求婚更多是出于陷入低谷的不安全感，出于对R的感激和依赖。他一时冲动离开了老爸的公司自谋前途，但含着金汤匙出生的L又能坚持多久呢？后来不还是回到了老爸的保护之下，和家人介绍的名媛订婚，甚至和R约会都去的家族企业下的餐厅。

R和L本就是两条线，只是在L极度vulnerable的时候短暂相交。即便当时R没有提出分手，后来L也会因为家庭和她分手。

而Rory，哦Rory！她自始至终都是一只扑火的飞蛾，从一开始她心里就很清楚和L不会有结果的，从他们刚开始交往，她就明知道L要的不是relationship，她以casual的方式进入L的生活；后来好不容易转正，去L家又被他家人奚落；到得知L毕业后就要去英国呆一年（虽然不到一年就回来了），她仍然一直坚持着，她知道和L终有一天要分开，但是在那一天到来之前，她选择饮鸩止渴。毕业时她对未来充满无限的希望，以为自己一定会在新闻界闯出一番天地，这也让她暂时的拥有了离开L的勇气。同样的，没过多久，她被现实打败，继而再度投入L那温暖、熟悉的怀抱，以一种一如既往的、self-desdructive的方式。但那时，L却已经回归了现实，头脑也恢复了清醒，于是两人再次以casual的方式在一起。Rory，once again，走上了一条没有终点的路。

把Rory写成冷静理智的、永远做正确决定的大女主的，事业爱情双丰收的happy ending固然是一个选择，但那样不真实。Aren't we all Rory? 至少我是（只不过没有她那么优秀和幸运），在寻找自己的历程方面，我们都和Rory一样。经历了该经历的弯路，最终都会戒掉Logan，重新找到人生的目标，start afresh。

PS：Rory最后怀孕，和circle没啥关系。Lorrelai高中没上完就怀孕，和Rory 32岁怀孕不是一个概念。再怎么说，R有家人朋友的帮助，自己又那么优秀，比L当年强多了。

吉尔莫女孩这个四季篇算不上好，可我特别感动所有演员集体回归，真的一个都没少，除了已经过世的姥爷，但剧中一开始也是以他的葬礼为导火索，看得出还是很用心的，这些人就像在十年里从没离开过，他们确实的生活在他们的镇子里，平淡又充满烦恼，每一个都是普通人。

Rory十七岁时第一次爱上一个人，Dean是温柔的大男孩，最好的都愿意给她，他是最好的男朋友，最好的初恋，可所有人都明白这是少年时代的爱情，美好也脆弱，不一样的人注定走不长久，可我最爱第一季，一切都那么完满。

十七岁时的Rory即使有Dean这样好的男朋友，还是会被Jess有趣的灵魂吸引以至移情别恋，可惜Jess这样的人即使同样爱着她也不会为她停留，更不会是一个好男朋友，后面有一幕没截，Jess为她的书提意见，Luke问“你还没翻篇”，Jess回答“早翻篇了”，然后却在无人的花园里透过窗户默默看着Rory，因为明白给不了所以不打扰。

十多年后Rory和Dean在当年认识的超市里巧遇，互相寒暄问候，Rory问“我在写一本关于我和我妈妈的书，我可以把你也写进去吗”，Dean犹豫一下说“我不知道，你准备怎么写我？”，Rory说 “你是我交往过的最棒的

男朋友”。 可能是那会太阳正落山，他们没哭，我忽然开始

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Ȗ吉尔莫女孩这个四季篇算不上好，可我特别感动所有演员集体回归，真的一个都没少，除了已经过世的姥爷，但剧中一开始也是以他的葬礼为导火索，看得出还是很用心的，这些人就像在十年里从没离开过，他们确实的生活在他们的镇子里，平淡又充满烦恼，每

一个都是普通人。 Rory十七岁时第一次爱上一个人，Dean是温柔的大男孩，最好的都愿意给她，他是最好的男朋友，最好的初恋，可所有人都明白这是少年时代的爱情，美好也脆弱，不一样的人注定走不长久，可我最爱第一季，

一切都那么完满。 十七岁时的Rory即使有Dean这样好的男朋友，还是会被Jess有趣的灵魂吸引以至移情别恋，可惜Jess这样的人即使同样爱着她也不会为她停留，更不会是一个好男朋友，后面有一幕没截，Jess为她的书提意见，Luke问“你还没翻篇”，Jess回答“早翻篇了”，然后却在无人的花园里透过窗户默默看着Rory，因为明白给

不了所以不打扰。 十多年后Rory和Dean在当年认识的超市里巧遇，互相寒暄问候，Rory问“我在写一本关于我和我妈妈的书，我可以把你也写进去吗”，Dean犹豫一下说“我不知道，你准备怎么写我？”，Rory说 “你是我交往过的最棒的男朋友”。

可能是那会太阳正落山，他们没哭，我忽然开始疯狂飚泪。