恋爱假期（粤语版）

Arthur Abbott: Say a man and a woman both need something to sleep in and both go to the same men's pajama department. The man says to the salesman, "I just need bottoms," and the woman says, "I just need a top." They look at each other and that's the 'meet cute.'

Amanda: You know Graham, I just broke up with someone and considering you just showed up and you're insanely good-looking and probably won't remember me anyway... I'm thinking we should have sex... If you want.
Graham: Is that a trick question?

Graham: I have the classic male problem of no follow through. Absolutely never remember to call after a date - but as this wasn't a date, I guess I'm off the hook.

Iris: Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. And every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you.
Miles: Exactly, and on top of that there's the old standby, I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.

Miles: Iris, if you were a melody... I used only the good notes.

Miles: Don't blow away.

Arthur Abbott: Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend.

Iris: You're supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for God's sake!

Iris: I've found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said "Journeys end in lovers meeting." What an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said "love is blind". Now that is something I know to be true. For some quite inexplicably, love fades; for others love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there's another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. Its called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space! Yes, you are looking at one such individual. And I have willingly loved that man for over three miserable years! The absolute worst years of my life! The worst Christmas', the worst Birthday's, New Years Eve's brought in by tears and valium. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I've been cursed by being in love with a man who does not and will not love me back. Oh god, just the sight of him! Heart pounding! Throat thickening! Absolutely can't swallow! All the usual symptoms.

Iris: It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little peices of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.

一个旧的结束常常会伴随着一个新的开始.一次偶然的相遇.两颗心的碰撞.火花很美丽.但是短暂的.从片头的配乐开始,我就闻到一股强烈的幸福的味道...到结尾配乐的高潮部分.这种味道充斥着我整个嗅觉器官.
片中这样的爱只可能发生在心志成熟的人身上.事业稳定的他们在自己的岗位上都算或小或大的成功者,却在感情这场战役中输给了自己,输给了感情.于是他们决定利用假期来让自己体验一次全新的生活,全新的环境."虽然Amanda真的不是来这个小镇找爱情的.但是爱情却找上了她."旁白中的这句话我印象很深.她的爱情发生的很浪漫.Iris是个好女人.贤良淑德.善解人意.用情专一.却用错了人...可怜的她遇到了同样可怜的他.同是天涯沦落人相逢何必曾相识.
看这个片子让我对爱有了新的看法.也许你会认为:大哥,你醒醒吧.这只是部电影.嗯没错!的确只是虚构出来的完美.片中每个人的出现都有他的作用.没有"废人".但毕竟电影的情节构思都是来源于生活,当然也高于生活的.就像我们心中的理想.我不得不再次重复着默念起我的坚持:有信念总是好的.有期待才会有乐趣.生活不要消极的复制每一天.也许我们不会像片中两对男女那样幸运能在一个假期中遇到自己的唯一.但你不该对自己失望.对生活失望.上帝总会眷顾到你的.只是他老人家就一个人忙不过来.总要有个先后次序的.呵.幸福属于我们每一个热爱生活的人.All you need is just love!Face to Faith!Let's go!
PS:某些对感情严重消极的朋友强烈推荐你看此片,也许不会帮到你什么实际问题.但至少你该看看这个好故事.理想也不过如此.就是因为我们在小时候看到某些成功者的表率,才会让我们将来想成为怎样怎样的人.感情也是一样.有期待总是好的:)
愿天下有情人终成眷属...

  说实话，一直以为这是个很肥皂的电影，但是因为凯特 温丝莱特，（好吧，我承认是冲着她去的。）多了些高贵和温馨。
  一直把《那段场景记在脑子里。 温丝莱特对那个男人说一切结束了，你再也不会成为我人生的重点了。然后是如此开心地把他推出去，像从牢里解脱般伸出双臂拥抱这个世界。
   一直记着这个场景，因为那种感觉是那样富有神迹，似乎很美好很美好。她的深呼吸，似乎在说这一瞬间我才体会到了自己的美丽，自己的价值是那么宽广，不只是限于这个男人。
   想起林徽因说，生活比爱情更宽广。
   曾经执着过的，曾经为之把自己压得很低很低的，曾经以为这是一生的价值即使受苦亦是光荣的。
   可是，总会有那一刻真相顿悟。原来这个男人根本配不上自己，维持彼此关系的只是自己那一点点小小的不肯澄清的misapprehension,像一点点微弱的火焰，风一吹就会毁灭，然后一切回到黑暗。也许，那一刻，当Jasper说话的时候不小心吹来了一阵风吧。这么美好的自己，我却捧在你面前，任你忽视，只有需要我的时候你会说I need you.
   多美的爱瑞斯，老人说，you,are supposed to be the leader,but for some reason,you make yourself a bestfriend.她美丽，热忱，用心去爱这个世界，包括那个戳戳的根本配不上她的Jasper,“If you are a song,I will just use the good tone."Jack Black这样对她说。
   女人，何苦这样，一日日，一时时，一刻刻重复着，为了不知道珍惜自己的人而把自己压得如此如此之低。"You make me think that's all my fault,'cause I too much love you!"当凯特这样说的时候，那个男人傻傻地看着她，呵，他其实从来没进过她的内心。所以，她可以超开心地说-----oh,it's over!
  深呼吸，你闻到这空气的味道了么？有一种来自更远的吸引，总是带着新鲜，总是有着希望。
   有另一种生活你可以获得的，只要那一刻你悟到了，天地便刹那间宽广了。
   也许是上帝的安排，让你在某一瞬间陷入万劫不复，在另一瞬间让你瞬间开悟，原来事情是这样的，他是这样估量你的价值的，生活是这样的。
   傻过，也就过了。悟到了，伤痛都如财富般发光。
   然后，去做自己该做的事情，那些更宽广的生活，那双你遗失在时空里的干净得令人心颤的眼睛。
  把爱瑞斯躺在沙发上说的话送给大家吧，不深刻，但那是一个用心生活的女人的期许。她总是相信美好的。Always.
  Well,what I'm trying to say is that I understand your feelings as small and insignificant in a human's ever small.And how can you ache when you don't know what's inside you?And it doesn't matter how many hair-cuts you get,at what gym you joint,how many wines you drink with your girlfriends,you still go to bed every night comes every details .You wonder what you did wrong and how you can misunderstand him,and how in that breath moment you could think you were that happy.Sometimes you could even convinced yourself that he will see the light and show up your door.
  And after all that,how ever long of that maybe,you will go somewhere new,and you will meet people someone makes you feel worthwhile again.All pieces of your soul will finally come back.And all that fuzz stuff,those years of your life wasted that will eventually bagan to fade.

一直很喜欢Kate Winslet 一个演技派 非常洒脱自然的女人！
也很喜欢Jude Law 因为他确实太帅了~

喜欢这部电影因为很喜欢它的剧本
所以在这一起share一下 经典的台词

其实开篇那段写的太美了 尤其是Kate来念
I have found almost everything ever written about love...to be true.
Shakespeare said,"Journeys end in lovers meeting."
What an extraordinary thought.
Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that...but I'm more than willing to believe
Shakespeare had.
I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should.
I'm constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives.
It was Shakespeare who also said,"Love is blind."
Now, that is something I know to be true.

For some, quite inexplicably...Love fades.
For others...Love is simply lost.
But then, of course,love can also be found.
Even if just for the night.
And then there's another kind of love.
The cruelest kind.
The one that almost kills its victims.
It's called unrequited love.
Of that, I am an expert..
Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other.
But what about the rest of us?What about our stories?
Those of us who fall in love alone.
We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
We are the cursed of the loved ones.
We are the unloved ones.
The walking wounded.
The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.
Yes, you are looking at one such individual.
And I have willingly loved...that man for over three miserable years.
The absolute worst years of my life.
The worst Christmases,the worst birthdays.
New Year's Eves brought in by tears and Valium(安定).
These years I've been in love have been the darkest days of my life...all because I'm cursed by being
in love with a man who does not...and will not love me back.
Oh, God, just the sight of him.
Heart. pounding, throat thickening,absolutely can't swallow.
All the usual symptoms.

Iris约Arthur一起吃晚饭 Arthur说的话是那么的通透
As a matter of fact, he is A huge schmuck.
How did you know?He let you go.
This is not a hard one to figure out.
Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies...and we have the best friend.
You, I can tell, are a leading lady.But for some reason,you're behaving like the best friend.
You're so right.
You're supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake.
Arthur, l've been going to a therapist for three years.And she's never explained anything to me that well.

Iris安慰Miles那段对话也十分的睿智经典
I know it's hard to believe people when they say, "l know how you feel."
But I actually know how you feel.
（You see...I was...seeing someone back in London.
We worked for the same newspaper.And then I found out that he was also seeing this other girl, Sarah...from the Circulation Department
on the 19th floor.It turned out that he wasn't in love with me like I thought.）
What l'm trying to say is...I understand feeling as small and as insignificant...as humanly possible.
How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you.
It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get...
or gyms you join...
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends.
You still go to bed every night going over every detail...and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment...you could think that you were that happy?
And sometimes you can even convince yourself...that he'll see the light and show up at your door.
And after all that...however long "all that" may be...you'll go somewhere new.
And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.
And little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff...those years of your life that you wasted...
that will eventually begin to fade.
...

有些人看一眼就知道是有故事的人。

我喜欢一个人，一定是从他的开场白开始喜欢。同样，讨厌一个人，也一定是因为那个开场白。这真的是个三秒钟的世界。三秒钟里，你和有的人马上有坐下一聊的冲动，当然也有人让你转身就想离开。

我和很多人有过第一个三秒钟。和小艾雅的三秒钟里，隔着5米远，她寻找的眼睛、微笑、以及毫不犹豫地拥抱让我马上知道，我们是同个频道的人。

微笑，无疑是很重要的判断标准。笑的温暖的男人，最令人无法抵挡。有着冷漠父亲的女子，此生都难以抗拒与温暖相关的一切人和事。比如牵手，比如拥抱。手、怀抱也和每张脸孔一样，是那么那么的不同。你对牵手拥抱的直觉，可以比眼睛能告诉你更多。

于是这个世界才有了那么多关于牵手的故事，关于拥抱的故事，关于笑容的故事。组合起来，会变成一见如故、一见钟情、一见倾心。然后有了那句，见到他的第一眼，似曾相识，仿若已经认识了好几生。

天堂有时候一点都不远。

故事里触摸到天堂的契机，都只需要那么一点点时间。就像《恋爱假期》里，只需要打开电脑，google一下，点鼠标，刚刚经历失恋的两个女人，人生从那秒开始不一样。

住在洛杉矶的Amanda和住在伦敦附近的Iris，一个忘记如何恋爱的女强人，一个与前男友纠缠数年的软弱女才子。她们下决心要丢掉惨淡的人生，逃开身边的一切。于是，在24小时候内互换了房子。

Amanda就这样从暖风洋溢的洛杉矶到了冰天雪地的英国小镇。半夜有人敲门，打开门，mr right就在眼前，这有些酒气的英俊男子是God送来的圣诞礼物。Iris就这样从小农庄住进了豪宅，门铃响，漂亮的奥迪跑车里是才华横溢的电影作曲家。

完美的三秒钟，尽管那么俗套，却还是平凡女子的热爱的桥段。我看他们亲吻，做爱，流泪，奔跑，约定，承诺，皆大欢喜。内心愉悦。我们需要这样的故事哄着自己，不然人生实在会更加残忍。因此，我才拒绝看一切有关残忍、血腥、暴力的故事。假如我无意路过悲剧的门口，我一定是个会克制住好奇心，快点跑远的小孩。

这世界绝对没有越受伤越勇敢的生物，没有露水的玫瑰没有香气，人人需要疗伤。《恋爱假期》这样典型的好莱坞应景爱情片，是属于疗伤系的。和《麻雀变凤凰》一样，适合午夜十分，寂寞的端着水杯，看着别人的爱情落泪，告诉自己，明天一定可以更好的。

这样的疗伤，多么适合善良不忍心去打扰别人的乖孩子。她们是善解人意又温润良善的，睡不着也只会在床上默默的烙饼。

要感谢那些编织故事的人。谢谢那些开场白，谢谢那些拥抱，谢谢那些牵手，谢谢那些皆大欢喜，谢谢他们慰藉了多少孤单而良善的灵魂。

   关于这部电影,打动我的并不是爱情,而是人如何从困境中走出来并且重新认识自己。
   片子的两个女人亚曼达和艾丽丝都是情场失意的女子，表面上看来她们的处境是很不同的：一个是因为自己的强势导致男友无法忍受而在外偷腥，就算是亚曼达赶他出门时，他还在为自己辩解（虽然最后无奈地承认了事实）；另一个是自己深爱的男友却光明正大的在你面前和别人在一起，甚至他到宣布自己结婚后还可以轻易的要求你继续充当他随时可以利用的避风港。这是一个身处弱势的女人。但是深层一点看，她们却是有着同样的问题：并没有真正认识自己的内心，不知道自己的爱是什么样子。亚曼达很想为失去的爱情哭泣，可事实是在她父亲离婚离家，拿走过道的行李箱之后，她就再也挤半点眼泪了；艾丽丝则总是为那个用电子邮件和电话短信追踪自己的男人心烦意乱。
   可以说这个片子里的人，两两具有相似的地方。上面说的是同样作为女人的亚曼达和艾丽斯。接下来是老亚瑟和艾丽斯，亚瑟对于像他致敬的晚会，他是拒绝的，原因是他的不自信，他说他不愿意自己无法走上舞台上，也不愿意只对着台下寥寥几个人发言。但是他却让艾丽丝看自己推荐的片子，那里面的女人都自信优雅，具有超越常人的力量，这最后也改变了艾丽丝。对于他自己他却不了解，他的症结和艾丽丝是一样的。在艾丽丝和麦尔斯的共同努力下，这老头也终于获得了自信，能够轻盈地跳（跳舞）上舞台，侃侃而谈。亚瑟和艾丽丝在影片的结尾完成了互相的拯救。
   麦尔斯的感情经历和艾丽丝有着相似之处，影片安排在致敬晚会开始前艾丽丝和找上门来的那个坏男人的对谈和麦尔斯坐在女友玛姬面前听其道歉的桥段同时进行，到后来两人在晚会上的相视而笑正是为了突现他们之间的这种相似点，以及对于错误感情的解脱和自我救赎。
   亚曼达和葛汉柏都是对自己要求严格的人。亚曼达在遭遇背叛后大声对自己说冷静冷静，葛汉柏让自己成为好爸爸、好编辑和好男人的愿望始终沉重的压迫着他，他们的相遇和相爱是注定的，因为他们可以在对方身上看到彼此的痛苦。
   虽然我不敢说他们真的从此以后就能幸福快乐的生活在一起，但至少我们要相信自我的力量，也要相信别人的力量。这些都可以帮助我们更清晰的认识自己，并且从困境中解脱吧。