一一向前冲

     没有深刻的主题，没有精湛的演技，但依旧喜欢这部电视剧。因为它的情节，有点现实，主人公们有点累，有点追求，有点点背，有点小温暖。
   职场，马路最初对周一一随心所欲又没心没肺的呵斥和关心，路易十三慢慢走上正规，马路到购物频道的纠结，一一到1088作为新人的打拼，1088的明争暗斗，强者生存的法则，关心别人带来的快乐、、、这所有的一切都会让我想到初入职场的种种画面。
   友情，每个人都有几个不太靠谱的伙伴。我们的身边总有一些损友，有时候打打闹闹，有时候还会闹别扭，但每次想到他们我们总会感到很温暖，觉得这个世界不孤单。
    爱情，有时候我会为一一叫屈，小心翼翼的喜欢一个无法放下的人，很累。装作无所谓，其实很在乎。装作很开心，其实很伤心。隐藏一切想隐藏又无法隐藏的东西，即便最后她成为曹砚的习惯，曹也不自觉的喜欢上她，但她爱的依旧很累。要不是他们身边的朋友帮曹砚解开心结，也许他们永远都不会在一起。不管怎样，导演给我们呈现了一个完美的结局，我很喜欢。

虽然女主的服饰发型我无法容忍，但是童蕾是漂亮的。霍建华和饰演马路的男演员是我看此剧的最初动力。此剧是温情的，真实的，让人感动的，给人希望的。主角们的生活和我是如此的相似，白天在写字楼，周末约会就电影，打球，餐馆，还有麦当劳的拥挤。一一的工作上不顺心，感情上纠结，我都恍惚觉得那是自己的某些侧面反映。看这部电视剧时候，正好自己也遭遇了一些不顺心，看着它，心里平静，温暖，也告诉自己，今天不开心只是今天，不开心会消散在明天。

看了前十集的时候给了四颗星，看完之后扣回来一个。

前期不错看，很温馨很好笑。男女主角从相遇到后来成为朋友，是顺理成章的，不造作。而且配角各种给力，马路极度合心水。

后期想反映电台里勾心斗角的人际关系，但是首先故事的着力点不在这里，至少我个人没有看出来它是所谓“励志”的。只能说那些平淡的生活小事可以反映出周一一是个性格不错的女人，值得好男人来喜欢。也因此，勾心斗角着墨太少，稍显平淡。

而且解套不够有力。在遭遇各种倒霉事的时候，没觉得周一一多可怜，也没觉得曹砚在帮助周一一的时候多睿智多从容。简单来说，就是没有让我感到，周一一没有曹砚是不行的。这在爱情故事里绝对是一个败笔。

再来就是度过前十集温馨暧昧期之后无休止的磨叽。几乎是无波澜，从周一一亲了曹砚的脸颊之后开始，两个人之间就开始不咸不淡。周一一对曹砚多次的逃避显得过于矫情。曹砚和前女友的复合也非常莫名其妙。曹砚的感情表现得不够强烈，无法成为典型的闷骚男。

在剧情上，故事后期还套进了“达人秀”模式。我不怕俗套，我只是觉得把它拍得过于简单，小打小闹，有点可笑。但胖乎乎的女工听众摇身一变成为竞争对手还是个不错的隐线，前期伏笔埋得不错。

其实这个剧本一直就是给人说不到点子上的感觉。两个人暧昧的时候就觉得味道还不够，曹砚和前女友在一起时不觉得周一一多伤心，写朋友之间的情谊稍显老套，写勾心斗角又拆招拆得稀里糊涂。那种感觉就是，一拳打在棉花上，软绵绵的无力感。总之就是不知道故事的重点在哪里。

再来就是吐槽一下选角。首先霍建华和童蕾我都很喜欢。他们都很适合各自的角色，但是把他们两个人放在一起，就是不搭，极为强烈的违和感。故事设定是周一一30，曹砚32。但是霍建华正太脸，就算为显成熟留了胡子，童蕾还是显得比他大。再加上霍建华偏瘦，又不是极高，童蕾高且这里的穿衣风格是稍显臃肿类的，两个人放到一起真的不是很般配。

我个人是觉得，偶像剧就是要拍到——男女主角虽然乍一看完全不搭界，但是看过之后就觉得，天啊这两个人要是不在一起真的是没天理——这种地步。韩国金三顺做到了，弯弯的就想赖着你也相当出众，但很遗憾一一向前冲做得还不够好。

整体来说差不多是这样了，烂尾烂得我很难过。

    Through the nearly two days, from the evening of Friday to the noon of Sunday, I, as a university student, was deeply captivated by a TV series called “yi yi, go forward fearlessly” (I translate it myself, so you possess a large probability to give a better one).
   Thinking of all the TV series I watch in the last one years, they never impacted me so strong and enchanted me so sheer like this one; and It kept me, all the way, appreciating every details of every scenarios of it without speeding the play, which I did continuously for other TV series .Even though the classmates around me may consider it is waste of time, I want to shout out aloud that it is not a time idle, conversely a absolutely worthy act in which I gained utterly.
    The most reasonable explanation for my being fascinated is that, every scene and each part of the TV series is exquisitely sketched and daintily conceived. Therefore when I was absorbed by the conversation, act and countenance, an inscrutable fear occurred to me that if I missed some of it, I would commit a total loss.
    Tasting it made me feel like tipping a cup of condensed coffee that is so special and expanse that I fail to control myself to compare it to a miniature of the world. If you can try to hear the word of it and put yourself in it, you will be taught about what is life, what is love and, more deep and practical, what pose you should take when you confront with the worldly world.
    In this TV series, the earthly love doesn’t itch your eyes like almost all other ones of the same kinds, and it probed into the minds of modern city people and excavated their souls; in other words, it main theme is not only love of a flock of young mans and women, but also the commonly faced difficulties of modern people, materialistic or mental. In this TV series, the concrete life of broadcast station is presented lively and explore the slow process of finding true love and in this way, it poses a serious problem pertinent to all human kind “what is love?”“love is something that you marry with the one whose life trajectory meet yours at only one point and then go in two different directions ?” “love is something of impulse? When you feel love to a woman, can you be sure you can love it all your life and your two life trajectory will go in one line all the time?” Just like the love between Zhen Liu and Yan Cao in which they undoubtedly have memorable love, nevertheless they still broke up; Just like Chengjun Zhang and yi yi in which they keep the love relation for many years, and they are both excellent and good in character, but the love ended up with total failure. What is love?
   Let’s reload the memorable scenes of TV series.
  Smiles:
       1.When Yan Cao started his car and want to leave, yi yi ,who is angry at that Yan Cao owned a car, lie completely upon the front lid of his car to stop him.
       2.When Yan Cao waited at the bottom of the building where yi yi lives, yi yi quickly get out of bed and runned to him, and then questioned “I dou’t want to go out with you”, however, Yan Cao having penetrated yi yi’s heart, smiled “aren’t you yourself want to go with me”
  Surprises:
       1.When Yan Cao said to yi yi at a pub “ I am the very ‘breeze.’”, yi yi laughed loudly “ can you be him? It is a really amazing joke.”
    2. When yi yi came to office of thief executor of 1088 to register for work and saw Yan Cao, she was taken aback and stood speechlessly.
    Tears:
      1.When yi yi watched Yan Cao hugged Zhen Liu at the gala, her tears flowed.
      2.When yi yi helped Aidi Wang to search the material for her contest, Aidi Wang, obviously for yi yi is her rival, changed her attitude towards yi yi suddenly. Yi yi’s heart was sheer broken. (Aidi Wang stabbed yi yi exactly into the heart, yi yi regarded Aidi Wang as her true friend, but she hurt her just because of the very rival.
    Yes, yi yi may be not the beauty, and she is ordinary young woman like many others who will watch films with her boyfriend. Nonetheless after she lose all of these over the night, she decides not to choose suicide and she does know she still can eat, thus she eats up a table of cakes of different shapes, which you may think it is amazing, but I want to argue actually yi yi wants to prove even though she is heart-broken , all the happening tells her a lesson and she will not be beaten down so easily. Despite all of the adversaries life bestows her, yi yi still believe in true love and doesn’t change her helpful and love-filled world view.
    Yi yi owns a crystal heart that will shine and flare in the eyes of ones who know what is life and what is love. This is clearly and conspicuously evidenced when all his enemies become her friends actually and actuary. In addition, Maybe yi yi doesn’t know how to make up herself and always dresses herself with a fat frock, an uncombed hair and an awkward boot, however her double-braided hair and unpretentious garment symbolize the primer and unaffected beauty and undisputedly more pretty.
    One being optimistic doesn’t denote he doesn’t have unhappiness and setbacks, mostly they will cry in their heart like yi yi. At this time, yi yi will expose grieve and sorrow to her friends, just like to Yan Cao, when Yan Cao is astonished to find yi yi, a commonly recognized optimistic one, still have unspeakable pains. It is true that when one unmasks his pain to you, don’t dislike it, as this usually means he regards you as a true friend and needs to consolate him, and the god bestows you a true friendship.
     The TV series depicts the throughout process of love, when you come along with her for some time, you find yourself seeing her more often, thinking about her thoughtlessly and fascinated by her character, until one day your life is perturbed so turbulent that you find you must show your hands to her. However, I still have a little doubt about Yan Cao that albeit he is a good man, but his several love relation before yi yi influenced my judgement that he will love yi yi all his lifetime. Does he know what is love?
      Another knowledge I get from the TV series is that the love between two must be base on something that can go through the ordeal of time, such as character charm. When I heard “ I love the very you, but not the money”, I couldn’t say how sham the word is. When time changed, the only thing that can keep love is character attraction.
      The TV series is sporadically embellished with timely humorous atmosphere, meaningful words and earnest conversations. Along with the mellifluous and soulful violin as background music, you will slowly lost in the concocted world and relate to the true meaning of life.
      The last word I want to say is that yi yi is perfect for her unaffected double braids, for her innocent smile, for her perseverant character.

        前两天看了《一一向前冲》，后来又把原著《S女出没，注意》也看了，现在还沉浸其中，难以自拔。不是剧情多么有新意、里面的感情多么梦幻，而是里面的人物有魅力以及有某种程度的真实性。
    赵薇曾说过人生是大悲伤加小高兴。不管悲伤与高兴的比例如何，起起伏伏才是人生的常态，而在生活中辗转的我们，也就悲悲喜喜，所以周一一这个大龄女青年，时而自高自大，时而自轻自贱的矛盾性格非常写实，我身边很多朋友包括我自己都是如此。试问谁会一直像永动机一样斗志昂扬，又有谁会一直自怨自艾呢？
    我最羡慕周一一的地方，不是她的单纯与执着、善良与勇敢，也不是她的才华与努力、幸运与达观，更不是她最终能守得云开见月明事业爱情双丰收，而是她的父母给予她的安定团结的大后方：温馨朴实的家，彼此关心却又不横加干涉的亲情。不能想象我32岁还单身时父母的状态，恐怕不是抓狂一词就足够形容。如果除了应付事业的焦头烂额外，还要抵抗父母的狂轰乱炸，那日子要多悲惨有多悲惨，要多凄凉有多凄凉。
    剧中的曹砚，潇洒帅气，时而沉默寡言，时而妙语连珠，是个才华横溢的电台DJ。一向淡泊名利的他，出于对电台的深深热爱接下了电台总监的职位。这个名头听起来光鲜亮丽，但在暗流汹涌的1088，却无疑是个烫手山芋。初始，某些地方他确实显得单纯与稚嫩，既看不出电台里人心叵测，对诸人背后的小动作也一无所知，甚至在周一一因送花事件蒙受不白之冤的时候，他的处理方式还有些和稀泥。然而，曹砚有自己的聪明与坚持，他会厘清员工间的个人恩怨、一分为二地处理员工的投诉；也会用自己的方式去查找真相；更会为了电台的发展去发掘人才、规划员工的发展方向。虽然剧情并未交代1088在他的带领下是否百尺竿头更进一步，可从他一开始认不清形势向谢芒示好，到后来学会在关键时刻强硬的表现来看，他一定不会让他的前任失望。
    人无完人，这样一个优质男人也有自己的软肋——感情。在感情上，他有一般人没有的大度，虽然清楚的意识到这种大度背后很可能是失去，仍放手让心爱的女人去开创事业。但这也反映了他在感情上的骄傲、执拗与不善表达，他不明白感情有时候并不需要理智，而挽留也并非是对对方的限制。还好，不管是在罗阳的刺激下，还是众人明里暗里的启发下，他终于学会了争取，也因而有了幸福圆满的结局。
    很多培训课都会提到空杯心理，着重强调就说明它的欠缺。在社会上混久了，多多少少有点半瓶子晃荡，对待别人的意见第一反应往往是排斥，马路就是如此，所以一开始他对待周一一的态度只能用恶劣来形容，但是也像大部分人一样，他内心纯良，所以不久又能真诚地放开自己接纳别人。马路有点好高骛远，但不管时运还是能力都有点欠缺，所以在事业上总难得意，这样的人如果有人在旁边加油打气也是能小有所成的，但如果始终一个人打拼，很容易郁郁不得志。
    剧中并未交代马路的年龄，只知道比周一一小，如果像书中所交代那样也是30啷当岁一人，那他在感情上的单纯与执着实在太难得。就算马路事业上没多大成就，至少也有一份正式的工作，就算他没什么钱，但至少房子车子也有，而他在认识上官燕之前不随便找女朋友，在惨被上官燕遗弃之后，又不随便接受另一个姑娘的感情，这简直是情圣所为。因为据调查研究，男人比女人更怕寂寞，更难以忍受孤独，而男人也比女人更难拒绝一份本不想要的情感，这就是为什么人说男追女隔座山，女追男隔层纱。当然不否认情圣的存在，只是书中对马路被拒绝后也开始了另一段感情的描述更为普遍。
    再来说说上官燕，她漂亮聪明随性洒脱，对自己和他人有着清晰的定位：她认为自己不是拔尖但至少也是上等，所以找不到深情的白马王子，至少也得找商业精英；她又劝周一一说曹砚那样的人是她们够也够不到的，所以千万不能陷进去否则只会让自己痛苦。客观来说她的认知还是很准确的，就像在综艺节目《非诚勿扰》中，有些男嘉宾惨遭集体灭灯不是因为条件不好，而是因为太过优秀而让女生觉得难以高攀，这种门当户对的观念约定俗成，既有一定道理又根深蒂固很难跨越。不过感情中不乏常规之外的奇迹，何况还是在电视剧中，所以周一一收获了她的爱情，上官燕也遇到了让她无法拿乔的马路。剧中上官燕哭着对马路喊“你不要你的车了，你不要我了，我爱你”的那幕是我的最爱，感情到位演员演绎的也好。
    最后还要提到书中与电视中性格差异最大的一位，张诚军。当然不管在哪个版本中他都是三个姑娘分崩离析的罪魁祸首，只是电视中他也算为了真爱而背弃了原有感情，而且他对待后一份感情真挚又诚恳，对待爱人以及爱人的朋友也是尽心尽力，所以总的来说人也算可以。然而在书中，他却是个不折不扣的陈世美，喜新厌旧还专吃窝边草，和庄静结婚后又打起了上官燕的主意，不仅频频示好，甚至还动手动脚。可对于这样的人，不仅周一一很久才治愈情伤，庄静也始终放不下，真是匪夷所思。这让我想起我们学校某个女生奇缺的学院里的一个奇女子，据传闻，在不长的时间里她接连谈了好几个男朋友，而且那些男生都是一个寝室的。当时我们一帮人着实费解：那些男生怎么了，是太大度，还是太饥渴？换一个两个说是看走眼了不是真爱也就算了，怎么能任由她买菜似的挑三拣四？兄弟还做不做了？友情即使比不上爱情，也不能这么糟践吧？？对于这种破坏社会安定团结的人，还一直惦记着？不抄家伙揍得他（她）不能人事就不错了。所以电视剧对这一点的改编，还是比较符合我等一般人的心理的。
    最后的最后，我摘抄下部分我喜欢的台词，很真实，也很励志。

    很多事情你以为是困难，其实那不是困难，那是一种考验，在考验你看待问题的角度，如果你能把一件坏事看成好事，你就得到了生活的智慧。
    对过去不后悔，对未来不害怕。
    别人没有选择你，你可以选择不在意。
    放下很难，但我们要学着去尝试。
    只有忘记，生活才能继续。
    一个没有自我的人是没有人爱的。
    你有难过的权力，但也有调整的义务。
    像你这样的把希望寄托在一个人身上，你一定会失望的。
    手若欠，人就贱。
    不要强调客观理由，迟到总是有理由的。
    不是别人过得比我惨，我就过得好了。
    有一句话说，你现在的生活，就是老天爷对你最好的安排。
    好比你丢失了一件很心爱的东西，要么就回头去重新捡起来，要么就干脆忘记继续前进。不要在原地徘徊。
    庸人自扰是最浪费时间的。
    难过的时候，我只允许自己难过一天，开心的时候，我允许自己开心一天。
    人的内心都是很柔软的，轻轻一触摸就会被打动了。
    有些事可以原谅，有些人却不能失去。
    喜欢而又无望，还要天天面对，对我来说是一种折磨。与其在无望的感情中纠缠，不如勇敢地放下。
    没有人爱我也没关系，我一个人也可以活的好好的。