一个购物狂的自白

比较轻松的电影，轻松到有些忽略了主旨，成了爱情喜剧。不过我想谁都不会有女主这么幸运，一般她这种活法的人都成了包法利夫人。

说到底我没什么感触，至今为止我不是月光族，而且拒绝提前消费，花呗都没有。不过我很理解女主，她小时候穿着打折品被衣着光鲜的女孩嘲笑的样子，就是我小时候穿着开口的鞋、背着掉皮的书包被同学嘲笑的样子。很多人都是这样人生的后几十年都是用来拼命补充前十几年的遗憾的，更何况大环境给你一种这样的想法，推动着你这么做。

从小到大媒体都告诉你超前消费是时尚的事 ，并让你认为你是不完美的、是需要某些修饰或者整容手术一类的东西。更何况现代社会无时无刻不处于攀比之中，穿什么、用什么、出入什么场所都与面子挂钩。各类品牌让各种广告包围你，让你觉得全世界都拥有这些只有你没有，还有很多贷款公司争相为人们提供超前消费的资金，一个涉世不深的人怎么可能完全抵挡住这种诱惑?我一个学姐，因为她最好的朋友是富二代，为了用上和她一样的东西 从此被校园贷盘剥，我并不想说她虚荣，年轻时谁没虚荣过呢?这种现象其实各大学都是非常普遍的。

至少在现实问题上，我是理智的。我从未被那些精美的奢侈品迷乱过心智，我一直坚信一个人的价值并不体现在吃穿用度上，真正的贵族应该有一种气度哪怕衣衫褴褛也掩盖不住。只是坦诚来说，当我穿着开口的鞋、背着掉皮的书包被嘲笑的时候，我内心里还是自卑的。“朴实无华”这个词就是一句好听的话，除非某些人想找个陪衬否则很少有人会因为这个特点欣赏你。其实每个人都有物质欲望，智能手机普及之后我就开始玩各种换装游戏，四代暖暖我都玩过，很多人因此认为我很幼稚，其实当一套虚拟的衣服被我收入囊中，我的内心就像女主购物时一样温暖而又幸福。我的空间相册就是个旁大的“衣柜”虽然虚拟的衣服我是穿不上的，可是看着里面一套又一套的整整齐齐的华丽“服装”，我就是高兴。我发觉我和主角也没什么区别，只是我的理智压抑住了我的感情，选择用游戏解决心底里隐隐的渴望。

我马上毕业了，搞不好以后也会成为记者，我认为现代媒体对于“购物狂”行为是推波助澜的，我厌恶这种行为，只是搞不好我也不得不当帮凶，因为我没那么大的才气去和全世界抗衡。

The first word to say, which is exactly how I feel, is that this movie is a rehabilitation way for most of shop-a-holics to go, and it needs someone to understand it.

At the very beginning of the movie, Rebecca had made clear her indulgence in shopping. In the other side of the shop windows, there's another world. A world where the most beautiful delicate encounter takes place. And she had some words that completely hit me.

You can never exchange your lover for a gorgeous cashmere sweater within 7 days.

How can a lover ever be compared to shopping?! When he's with you, he doesn't necessarily bring you fantastic clothes and jewellery and things like that, but when you break up, he doesn't even give you a sweater. You don't have anything, if you do, it's a broken heart. Who'd ever make a money-losing deal like that?! I mean, being in the shop center, you find yourself in a new world. Everything is brand new, fashion forward and glittering, and they also smells good. Moreover, just a punch of your credit card and they're all yours. It feels like the whole world coming back to you. Your desire for things and your satisfaction of getting them can overcome any kind of sadness. It brings back all your self-respect and the confidence to live a fabulous life, telling you how gorgeous you are. This is when you find it a must to be there, shopping. It's like an addiction.

If you're not a shop-a-holic and you don't feel the same as I do, there's no need for you to read on. You'll never understand the heartbreaking feeling when you have to break up with all those shopping centers and everything you love. You'll never understand the desperation when you find yourself having nothing left because of the unreasonable thirst for luxury. You build your own prison and you lock yourself up in your carnal desires. It's such a great beat that there are tears running in your eyes. Now you admit the fact that it's a bad thing and you're a coward who can never fight against yourself.

This movie is the right brand of give-up-smoke candy for most of the shop-a-holics, at least the ones like me. Cut the knot, and made the decision. That's what to do to move on in life. You need to smash everything into pieces to live a better life.

And for those who aren't shop-a-holics, or those who don't understand the attraction of fashion, you just don't have the right to say anything negative about the movie. Since you've never been into it, you'd never know how to get out.