婚礼歌手1998

星期天的晚上，精力不济中百无聊赖中看了这部电影--《the wedding singer》。
影片细节美好，出乎意料地被感动了下。

谁才是我们的另一半？
朱莉娅说，另一半就是想和他一起变老的那个人。
罗宾说，我也想坐靠窗的位置，但女友从不让我坐。
罗宾的单身Bro说，我并不开心，我希望有人可以环抱我安慰我。

老太太鲁斯说：
you know when you meet the right gril,
becase it is not how you feeling abour her,
it is how she makes you feel about yourself.

姜是老的辣。
困惑中的恋人们，谁才是你的另一半？
it is about security?
it is about money?
it is about personality?
...it is about yourself!

谁才是你的另一半？
那个可以、愿意、做好了准备和你一起变老的人。
那个把最好的留给你，把最爱的和你分享的人，把最痛的告诉你的人。
那个让你时而感觉甜蜜，时而感觉充实，时而感觉悲伤的人。
那个让你有牵有挂，随时不放心放不下的人。
那个让你觉得自己无比勇敢无比自信无所不能的人。

那个把你放在他最重要位置的人。

plus，Drew Barrymore美得像太阳下一朵金灿灿的小雏菊，看到她都是享受啊；
Adam Sandler也是我非常喜欢的演员，这个男人不够帅气没有肌肉，在片中的发型和服装更是囧rz。但他幽默、真诚、自信、深情，我总被这样的男人感动。他唱那一首kill me，眼神清澈明亮，爱和痛都那么干净纯粹淋漓尽致。真是又好笑又让人心痛。是真性情还是演技爆棚？

   After Robbie was abadoned by Linda at the wedding,he laid in the bed in the basement,and he said to Sammy:"I don't have anything to offer."
   Then he met Julia.He finally got something to offer to that girl.Actually,Robbie was helping other people in town all the time.He is a wedding singer,who bring joy to guests;He has a dream as a rock star and is talented at writting songs.
   He is an orphan.Mom and Daddy left at ten.He has been hurt.But he is the one who always make other people happy.I think that's noble. Many people who got hurt grow to be cynical and defended,self-involved,and lose faith in love. Robbie thinks in a positive way,and he still hold hope for true love,before the wedding day.He got mad,sad,felt deeply betrayed,and began to doubt himeself as a wedding singer and even a helper without any payment. We know how much love can hurt."Take an instance,me." When Robbie sang that angry song"I used to love but it was a joke and I want a bullet shot in my head"in the hall in front of Julia,I think that's the moment Julia fell in love with him.So did I.I usually into guys with hurt and a high-esteem.I guess that's the self-rescue part,you will cure by rescuing somebody else hurting. Robbie met Julia,who looked him in the eye that we all read the message"You are so special to me".And Robbie went to pursue Julia at the last moment.
   I think that's the difference between men and women.When a man get hurt,he will move to save another girl in need,so as to cure himself and felt his worth once more.But when a woman gets hurt,she wouldn't get cure by loving another man,c'z that's not appropriate for a moman to be active and take into the" rescuer" role.She is espected to stay there in the blue and wait someone to show up and save her. It's getting helpless.And I hate myself.Anyway,Julia is not the girl like me.I won't let my life depend on someone else to save me,which by the way,romance only happens in the movie.
   I'm not Julia,and I can't be Robbie who meets Julia and be treasured and he earned his welfare by taking some moves.He is a man.That's what man should do.I don't know if I ever gonna meet some guy who is attracted by my loneliness and misery because there's anything else I can offer,to the opposite sex. I have a kind of pretty face,and a not so perfect body,a great listen when I concentrate,a hard-working student but that ambitiousness is not appreciated for most men. I learned self-doubt after the hurt by love,and become someone who is not me.And now I don't like the way I am.I had a fierce fight in the inner world every moment in the past few days.I even despise myself for thinking so negtively.Is there anyone who can understand the complicated contradiction I've been suffering?
   You might disgrace me but I'm the one losing faith in true love.I believe there's true love,I just don't believe that would happen on me.I'm also cursed for not helping other people,but I got my own ways to get out,by pulling myself higher and higher.A tough way,but at least it works some time.It isn't working now,and I'm back to that needy,desperate coward again.Hi me,all I'm thinking is that I don't deserve to have a guy to treasure me,looking me in the eye like saying"You are the most beautiful thing in the world.",someone who holds me and say"everything will be allright." I would like to do anything for him,too.But no,there's none,all me.I'm a loser.That's what they called. If love was red,I must be color-blind.
   There is tons of great speech you can throw on me,like"if you try you will find",or "don't feel inferior,you are not that bad",or"be yourself and good things will follow"...that doesn't help really.
    I'm going to live,whatever.Whether to success or lose in the end,it won't improve anything to self-esteem.I still gonna to abase myself for such struggle in vain.For not feeling confident in prior,for having so much contrary thoughts in head.That's me,and that's not cool.
    Perfectism,they call it.It rules all over me.Very mean superego.Mother never loved her much and daddy never kept in touch,that's why she shies away from human affection.
    I'm the kid in emptiness,like Robbie.He finds away by writting songs and helping people.I find my way lifting up.We are both innocent children abandoned by parents.Why do they do that to us? I know I'm not the only one,and there are more even worse. The absense of parents definitely effects on children's development,and I don't know how many of them has made a way out.I still went back to the homeless little girl sometimes.
    Can I help ? Maybe some day I will.I will.
Be careful,don't be hurt by love.But sometimes it's just destiny.You can't run off,it will chase you.Eat you in and out.
    "I'm so in love with you."Wish someday I could say that.Wish I have the strength to make it till that day.

先看了初恋五十次。然后看这个。
下在touch上，分两次看完的。看到最后飞机上的煽情桥段，居然见鬼般还有点想哭。
这么多年了，我还是那个被老桥段一煽就要流泪的土气姑娘。一点进步都没有。
这两个家伙也太般配了吧……为什么不在一起捏……

很好笑的是，因为同名的一首歌才去看这部同名的一部电影。
更好笑的是，当初给友人推荐这首同名歌，友人给我推荐了这部同名电影，直到今晚才看。

故事很美好，剧情很一般。
有情人终成眷属的故事都已经是老梗，
不过在心情不好的时候看这一部有关爱情，有关音乐，有关摇滚乐队的片子，还是不赖。

嗯有情人终成眷属吧。
那友情人呢。

这是一部轻松主题的电影，关于如何将一个简单的爱情故事拍的新鲜而动人，本片具有相当的参考价值。领衔主演的是Adam Sandler和Drew Barrymore，他们的精湛演出使本片在无数以婚礼为背景的好莱坞影片中显得别具风味。而且由于影片内的场景都取自我们熟悉的八十年代，片中再现和戏仿了许多八十年代常见的
看这部电影的时候,是该片上映的第十年头,看到亚当的发型第一个反应是这是哪个年代的?抱着这是八十年代的片笃定的信念看完了电影(没想过这是98年的电影),先觉得奇怪那时候亚当和德鲁就这么老了?然后又受里面的美式特有的温馨吸引,觉得这很动人

我相信。
這電影，理想得不真實。
看完了才知道那個唱歌很好聽的男人是那個長臉男。
看的時候很驚訝，那個在ET中水嫩嫩的小女孩兒怎么又去清純去了。

怎么那么幸運，說要找個right one，這個one就來了。還在飛機上唱好聽的歌給你。
怎么那么幸運。說要追回她，這個她就在飛機上了。還有整個飛機的人都在幫你。
是因為老美比較浪漫嗎？
還是他們都相信愛情？

我喜歡看幸福的couple，因為自己沒有那種幸福了。
我喜歡看老去的couple，還在那么相愛。因為，我不會有那種愛情了。

這電影乾淨得沒有性，只有兩個吻。我們都知道愛情跟性，是沒有關係的。
我相信你愛我。我也相信我愛你。但是，我更相信的是，我們都會變的。如果你說你就這個時刻，你愛我。我也相信。只是，我相信，之後我也相信這些都是bullshit.所以，我喜歡看那些還在堅持的couple，我希望看到他們就在幸福的時候結束這個故事。

我相信愛情。只是，我也相信，這種單純的愛情不會再發生在我身上了。
也許，因為我身上從來就沒有過單純的愛情吧。
我相信你們都會找到一個人who can grows old w/ u. 只是，我已經放棄了需找。
如果你一直在尋找，那么我尊重你的決心。
所以，就像我不反對我的學生早戀。總有人要知道那純純的愛是什麽才好。
所以，就像我看到十八歲給我個妞兒，我會微笑。總有個妞兒讓你懂得什麽是愛情。

廢話以上。只因為我相信這個單純到白癡的故事真的會存在。